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My grief story. Tips for downsizing after a loss.

May 15, 2020 |

I felt anxious and apprehensive about picking up my dad’s cremains. Would I be sad and cry once they placed his container in my arms? Should I accept my husband’s offer to pick them up or have him accompany me? In the end, I decided I’d do it after a client appointment since she lived…

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Get Unstuck and Get Organized: Simply Organized Support Group

April 23, 2020

  Is this you? You can visualize how you want to organize but you can’t quite seem to get there. You’ve started and stopped more times then you can count. You are overwhelmed. You are stuck and can’t seem to move forward. You thrive in a group environment where fun and guided support go hand…

virtual organizing

Regain control of your home with virtual (remote) organizing assistance

April 15, 2020

Before March 2020, I worked with 1:1 with clients in their homes. That’s not possible at the time of this post (spring 2020) BUT you can still get my nonjudgmental support and learn how to organize when you’re overwhelmed and don’t know where to begin. It’s a fantastic opportunity to get your paper piles in…

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Try this if you need to get rid of items quickly

March 14, 2020

Sometimes a move to a different home is planned, other times it’s due to a crisis. My parents experienced both situations and moved 3 times in the last 9 years. Each move required downsizing because of space constraints. Fortunately, they’d downsized for decades and didn’t hang onto things that no longer served them. They continued…

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My dad’s wait is over

February 11, 2020

His 5-year wait ended.   Ever since my mom passed, dad envisioned once again being with his bride of 64 years. That long-awaited day arrived for him on December 29, 2019, with his passing. His kids and grandkids drove and flew into Madison to love on him during his last days. • We held his…

checklist organizing

Prepare for an exceptional morning–free checklist

January 9, 2020

I’m not a morning person. How about you? Do you start the day off feeling frazzled before your body is even vertical? I have my dad to thank for showing me the power of preparing for the next day by doing as much as possible the night before.  He really hated mornings.  His eyes were…

checklist before buying things

An essential checklist to prevent clutter and save money.

December 11, 2019

We all buy stuff, myself included, thinking….. That’s CUTE, I need it! I love her outfit, I want one just like it. It’s on sale, I gotta buy it now. I’m sad, worried, anxious so buying this thing will make me feel better. Oh my gosh, that gadget is just what I need. It’s the…

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Try this if you hate sorting papers, decluttering, and making decisions

November 13, 2019

  I hate this!  {declared my client} Excuse me?  This is NOT something I want to hear while organizing with a client. I saw she was overwhelmed, annoyed and frustrated about the boxes of memorabilia, mostly papers, we discovered. It felt like an impossible feat for her to sort it all out. She wanted to…

compassionate organizing

Organizing is emotional

October 23, 2019

I noticed there was a change of plans when my client met me at her door with two outdoor seat cushions and a cup of coffee in her hand. She needed time to enjoy the beautiful morning and chat for a bit.  I realized organizing was gonna have to wait. Doing nothing is a challenge for…

reasons to not buy

Buying it, even when you like it, might not be the best decision

October 9, 2019

I was A F R A I D of this bike but I accepted my friend’s invitation to try it anyway. It’s not an ordinary bike, my friend owns an e-bike (electric). A bike with a throttle among other powerful features which scared me a bit.  No one has ever called me a thrill-seeking daredevil.…

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Are you ready for overnight guests?

September 25, 2019

She had a sofa for a guest to sleep on but let’s just say the guest room was a bit neglected.  Here’s the thing…. guests were due to arrive and she was paralyzed by overwhelm.  She was feeling the external pressure to transform that space. I was thrilled she reached out for my help clearing…

tips to say no

Time management: How to say “no” when you feel obligated to say “yes”

September 18, 2019

Are you saying yes when you really want to say no? It’s hard for most of us to say no, especially when a favor is asked and you don’t want to let someone down. What if you changed your perception from when you respond to a request with a “no” you are being callous and…

how to make decisions about your stuff

How to make decisions based on truth not fear

August 21, 2019

The decision-making process, or determining what to keep and what not to keep, is fundamental to the organizing process. Many things are kept because of good intentions but when the truth be told, it was kept knowing it would never be used, looked at again or even thought about. Do these situations sound familiar? You’ve…